If something is happening wrong in your life, accept and forget it. Accept that it is like this only and than forget about it. Something is not happening as per your desire. Accept it. And forget it.
Accept that situation is not as per your desire. And forget that it is not as per your desire.
There was happily married couple who was celebrating 50 year of their marriage.
A guy to a man : what is secreat of your happy marriage?
Man : Accept and forget. Sometimes I do wrong and she accepts & forgets. Sometime she does wrong and I accept & forget.
Someone has done wrong to you? Accept and forget.
Someone says that you are not good looking? Accept and forget.
Someone says that you do not have good language skill? Accept and forget.
Someone says that you are not interesting person? Accept and forget.
Someone says that you are always source of problem? Accept and forget.
Do not make those comment part of your being. Many people will disagree with me when I say accept and forget. Because, if manager comes to you and says you something, you can not accept and forget it. :-) Actually what I mean when I say accept and forget it is, accept that you have done mistake. Accept whatever situation is created because of that mistake. Take responsibility of whatever is happening because of that mistake. Accept. But forget whatever comment people are making to you in that situation. Forget if someone has said that you are always like this. Forget labels. Forget categories. Forget divisions.
We live the life where we are forgiving people but not forgetting that we have forgiven them.
Accept and forget -best rule to be happy. What do you say?
Source : Shahbuddin Rathod
ya but ignoring everyone is not possible..
ReplyDeletesometimes if someone comment u then it may be right.n if u think about tht coment seriously(sometimes only......) it will only to make ur life more beautiful.
i have personal exp. tht if u ignore all then they ll ignore u also..
"Best is in balance" dude ....
ReplyDeleteYou are right. If you simply ignore all the comments, that is not good for you .. because it may be in favour of your progress or growth .. If you simply accept everyone's comment, that is also not good for you .. Because than you will not be living your life .. You will be living life on someone else's opinion .. Which is like insulting self ..
If you are feeling that something is your limitation .. Something you can not do in any situation .. You are not made to do things whic he/she is saying ..Than accept it as your limitation and for get about it ... Actually what I mean when I say accept and forget it is, accept that you have done mistake. Accept whatever situation is created because of that mistake. Take responsibility of whatever is happening because of that mistake. Accept. But forget whatever comment people are making to you in that situation. Forget if someone has said that you are always like this. Forget labels. Forget categories. Forget divisions.
truly qouted!accepting and forgetting makes life really simple!
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